Teaching your son or daughter not to interrupt can sometimes be an exercise in frustration. Telling them there’s a time to interrupt (for instance, in case of a fire) and a time to not interrupt (boredom) isn’t enough. But putting these principles into practice is easier said than done, especially for a very verbal or high-energy kid. That’s why now is a good time to revisit some basic lessons about good manners and teaching your son or daughter to wait their turn to speak.
For starters, set a reasonable expectation. School-aged children have a difficult time holding their thoughts for more than a few minutes. Indicate to them as best as you can that you’ll be with them as soon as possible and then stay true to your word.
Develop some ideas for them to occupy themselves with while you’re on the phone or otherwise unavailable. Keep a box full of puzzles, crayons, colorful markers or other quiet toys nearby that they can only use when you have to make a call. Set drinks and snacks on an accessible level so they don’t have to interrupt you for help.
When you need to make a call or have an important conversation with a visitor, head off trouble by saying you’re about to phone someone or have a conversation and estimate how long you expect to talk. Ask them if they need anything before you make your call or have your conversation with your visitor. Then try your best to stick to that time schedule, and excuse yourself from the conversation long enough to check on them. Let them know you’ll be a bit longer if that’s the case and see if they need anything before returning to your conversation.
Reading is an excellent tool to teach manners. Find several books on the subject then read them together. Discuss afterwards what your son or daughter learned from the story and how they’ll handle a similar situation in their life the next time it occurs.
And as always, children learn what they live. Your son or daughter is very unlikely to learn not to interrupt if they hear you, your spouse, or their siblings constantly interrupting each other. Your actions have a strong influence on your son or daughter, so be a good example and seek permission to speak before speaking, and apologize when you inadvertently interrupt.
Your goal is to be a good role model for your son or daughter. You want to lead by example.
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