If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.
But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.
A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…
Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First of all, the concept of a “10″ is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more “valuable” just because she looks nicer than other women.
The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
You’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level - it’s what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you’ll have plenty of “adventures” to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin
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